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By Enoch Tan / Creator of Secrets of Mind and Reality

Enlightenment is about seeing through the illusions of life and knowing what reality really is.

When you are enlightened, you can have everything you want. Because you’ll know the truth about what everything is, and what does it really mean to have something.

It is an irony of the world that the people who seek material things and desire to have them before thinking about enlightenment, tend to attain neither, but those that acquire enlightenment first are the ones who do.

The desireless attain all their desires.

Being desireless is not about having no desire, but it is about having no attachment to desire. Attachment is the cause of all suffering. Suffering is burning emotional energy on the uncontrollable.The more you suffer, the more suffering you attract.

Letting go of all attachments is the way to end all suffering.

When you are attached, you are in a state of wanting or lacking. When you are detached, you are in a state of being desireless. Enlightenment is about knowing why detachment gets you your desire.

Physical reality is an illusion created by consciousness to rediscover itself. It is an illusion that you do not have what you already want, because you already have all that you desire in spiritual reality. Physical reality is a place for you to manifest anything that you are resonating with from spiritual reality. When you are attached, you are resonating with the spiritual untruth that you do not have your desire.

When you are detached, you are resonating with the spiritual truth that you already have your desire. You free yourself by being emotionally detached from choices. Many people fail to get what they want because they do not free themselves to have it.

You trap yourself when you are attached to choices. You think that it has to work a particular way rather than allowing yourself to go another way. Detachment from choices is what gives you true freedom of choice. You are able to choose again in every moment and are free to make a different choice if you will.

Detachment from choice is secret of flexibility.

Stock market trading success comes to those who trade in an enlightened way. The masses are emotionally attached to choices and that is why they lose money when they hold on to failing stocks instead of selling them. They also fail to sell when the stock has reached a substantial level of growth because they are attached to seeing it grow forever.

The elite traders are not attached to choices but they buy and sell freely in a way that makes them more money than losing it. To be unattached is to be free.

Having the relationships you want also comes from being enlightened. What a woman really wants is an enlightened man. He is a man who realizes his true being as a free spirit. He is free to express himself to her and he is free from being affected by her.

Being detached is the attractive quality that makes a man uncontrollable by a lady. Being undefined by external factors is what makes him self assured. He is capable of loving fearlessly and loving without attachment. Enlightened loving is loving like a god.

Those who are enlightened get what they want by benefiting from movement and changes, whether positive or negative. It no longer matters to them whether the stock goes up or down. They have strategies to make money either way. It no longer matters to them whether which person likes or don’t like them, or when their partner is happy or unhappy with them. They simply allow themselves to enjoy all the happiness and positive energy they experience from whoever, whenever and however it comes.

Enlightened manifestation of your desires is about getting the essence of what you want and not being attached to the form or channel. Those who are attached to form or channel will suffer more and more, and have less and less self esteem. Whereas those who are not attached will be able to enjoy more and more of the things they like in life, and have more and more self esteem.

Those who have more self esteem are more capable of having the success and relationships they want compared to the others.

Freedom from attachment is also the reason why the rich get richer and the happy
get happier, while the poor get poorer and the unhappy get unhappier. Having comes from being. When you are being detached, you are resonating with having. When you are being attached, you are resonating with not having.

That is why it has always been said that you will finally be able to have what you want when you no longer want it. It does not mean you do not want it, but you are no longer in a state of wanting it.

All that we want is peace and bliss. We think that when we have all the material things we want, we will have peace and bliss. But that is because we don’t really know what peace and bliss are. It is peace and bliss that bring us everything else in life.

Peace is total transcendence. Bliss is an untouchable happiness. When we transcend all illusions of the material world, we are in a state of peace where we can manifest anything we want. When we have no attachments, we have a happiness that cannot go.

Enlightenment is the key to everything. The unenlightened may ask what enlightenment has got to do with making the money or getting the girl that you want. The answer is everything. When you are enlightened, you realize that it is not about getting this or that, but it is all about knowing what reality is, and who you really are. Then from that space of knowingness and beingness, you are free to create whatever you wish.

You’re free to play with illusions without being trapped by any, as it is all just a game.

Enoch Tan is the creator of Secrets of Mind Reality.

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If you cannot control your mind – you cannot expect to control your life.

Why?

Simply this … what goes on in the mind – goes on in your life. It is basically a mirror. So within … so without.

You mind is a simple device. It records and plays back. So … if you are programming good thoughts you will get desired things. If you are programming less than positive … you get less than positive.

You do this with your thoughts … your self talk.

What you say to yourself matters. It is a COMMAND. Your obedient mind will deliver. “Your wish is my command”.

Some examples of less than positive self-talk would be:

• “I’m not good enough”
• “I’m not strong enough”
• “I’m not thin enough”
• “That is just not me”
• “How stupid am I?”
• “knowing  my luck … “
• “I could never do that …”

Fill in the blanks … “I’m just not _____ enough”.

How about wealth? Do you think it affects your wealth? Up bet it does. “I never can get ahead”.

So there are several ways to control your mind. I will name a three that I have posted about.

1. Follow The Power of Now and feel your inner being at all times. This keeps your mind focused on you … and not wandering with uncontrolled thoughts. This is easy to do. I have done it and continue to do it. It is fantastic and it has many other benefits to your life.

2. Third eye meditation … or as in The Power of Now – focus on something on your body. In this case – you keep a portion of your awareness on the third eye. It has some amazing benefits and it feels good too.

3. Use an altered consciousness state via meditation. I recommend this because it helps you control your mind at all times. You need to quiet your mind and focus on no thought. I personally life to use both 1 and 2 for the meditation. They both feel fantastic. I also use the Silva Mind Control method which is another fantastic method to learn/use.

4. Self-talk and affirmations. You need to control your self-talk. You want to improve something in your life – this is a must. You cannot do other methods and then have negative self-talk. It will defeat the good you are trying to bring about.

A couple of very good resources for Self-talk are Bradley Thompson’s Self Talk Series. These are CDs that you listen to several times a day … and they reprogram your mind. It is a very simple way to reprogram. All you need to do is listen 2-3 times a day and within a short period of time you will notice changes.

Another great resource is Shad Helmstetter’s best selling book “What To Say When You Talk To Yourself”.

But the key to all of this is … control your mind … control your thinking … control your self-talk.

If you can do that  (AND YOU CAN) … you can change anything about your life.

Beware … you have programmed your life … all your life … so to reprogram … you need to consistently use REPETITION to reprogram. It will take less time that what you have done to this point in your life … but it will take time.

Do it.

Enjoy.

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I had read this book a few years back, but I have just re-read it. I have certainly evolved since my last reading.

They say when the student is ready the teacher will appear. Well, when I first read Eckhart’s book – I found the information to be good (not great). I recall trying some of the exercises/suggestions in the book and almost immediately dismissing them.

The truth is … I was not ready for the information. I had certain beliefs that did not allow me to buy into what he was teaching.

I do know that all of your power is in the NOW. The time you have is NOW. The only way to deliberately create your life is NOW.  All of that makes perfect sense.

But that is only part of his message. The part I was not into was the stillness part.

I could not keep my mind quiet for the life of me. Meditation – are you kidding? I cannot even sit still. I have a million of thoughts flying in my head.

Every book or course on mastering the law of attraction talks about quieting the mind or controlling you mind.

Why?   Because you need to walk before you can run.

If you cannot control your mind – the thoughts that you think – then there is not way you can deliberately create the reality you want.

“You either control your mind … or your mind controls you”

Back to “The Power of Now” … thanks to reading a different book, I decided to re-read this book again … and I am still re-reading it again and again and again.

I don’t know how many times you read a book, but I always re-read books that have life altering information. I highlight the text. I read from cover to cover – then I re-read from cover to cover again and again, etc.

Why? Because you forget the information. We all fall back into our habitual way of living. So I re-read to remind myself of a different way. Eventually it sinks in and becomes the new way.

Eckhart’s book, to me, is one of my top 5 books that have influenced my life – has provided me with a life altering way of thinking and living.

I cannot recommend this book enough.

If you own this book – re-read it. Understand it. Apply it. Feel your BEING. Practicing feeling your presence. It is wonderful.

If you do not own this book – get it – if you are ready that is. It has over 1,000 positive reviews on Amazon.

Who would be good to read this book? I would say this book is for anyone who is unhappy with their life. This book is for someone who is hoping the future will make them feel better. This book is for the person who is always searching for some missing thing in their life – whether it be happiness, relationship, wealth, or whatever it may be. This book is for the person who would like to be enlightened.

Apply the concepts from the book. It is really just the beginning of something special.

Head over to Amazon and pick up The Power of Now.

Enjoy.

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The lesson is a simple one that slips past most people.

It is simply this … take action toward your goals consistently.

Now, I will admit this to you. I did not have a goal to become a black belt. Sure, I thought someday it would happen. But that was not my real goal.

My real goal was be the best I could be at karate (or anything) everyday. To improve each day.

I call it baby steps.  Baby steps are tiny little steps in the right direction toward your ultimate goal.

Baby steps are simple … breakdown your goal into something, that if done consistently, will ultimately get you want you want.

In my case – it took 6 years to achieve my goal.

Can you focus on some consistent action daily (or whatever period of time) consistently to have it realized? Sure. Anyone can.

Take the baby step approach. Another thing about the baby step approach is this … when you were learning to walk as a baby – you likely fell down many times. Some of those times you may have even got hurt and cried. But guess what … you didn’t quit. You kept at it. You got back up and tried again. Maybe not immediately – but you did try again.

You were not afraid. You just did it. You did not know what being afraid of failure even is. Failure did not occur to you at all.

After a while you get programmed. You know what failure feels like and sometimes you quit. Some times it is just too hard to get results.

Well my friends, if you had that attitude when you were a baby … you would never have walked.

Sometimes it takes a while. If you want something bad enough you must never quit. “Quitters never win and winners never quit.” I am sure you are a winner.

I really don’t care what it is you want in life … but I do know, without a shadow of a doubt, that you can have it. But you are going to need to put in consistent mental and physical efforts.

You need to do your part. Embrace the baby step approach. You simply cannot fail.

It is all attitude.

All you need is the right attitude and daily, consistent activity that takes you in the direction of your goal.

I strongly recommend you make a daily ritual of meditation, visualization, and the many resources available from this site to get what you want.

I have made several recommendations and have several reviews of some wonderful products that can surely help you.

Feel free to send me a note if you have some questions. I may be able to recommend something that can best fit your needs.

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Firstly, you are the creator of your life experience. Whether you are creating your life experience consciously or unconsciously is the question. Most people create unconsciously.

Are you doing anything deliberately – each and every day – to create an improved life experience?

Are you doing it consistently every day? Is it a ritual for you? Is it a habit – like eating breakfast? Do you make it an ESSENTIAL part of your day?

If you are not making it an ESSENTIAL part of your day, you might just not be happy with where you are with your life.

If I told you that if you did something each and everyday – as you do with eating (for example), and you did it the right way – that you are guaranteed to change your life – would you do it?

If I told you all you had to do was spend a small amount of deliberate time each and everyday – to deliberately improve your life  – would you do ?

If I told you that all you had to do was put forth a little bit of effort (easy effort) that is in no way stressful, physically tiring or harmful in anyway … and if you did this in the correct way that you cannot NOT get what you want … would you do it?

I know the answers are surely “YES YES YES”. Yet so many people will buy books or information that tells them what do to … to improve their life and you know what … they don’t do it.

Why wouldn’t they do it? I am talking about getting everything and anything you want. Why would you not follow through with the information?

Well from my experience and feedback it comes down to a few factors. Firstly, most people are lazy. I actually have to do something? I actually have to put forth some effort to change my life? It is going to take a month to change my life? That is too long. I have been living this way for 30 years and it will take at least a month to change my life … that is way to long. PLEASE!! Excuses are for the weak.

The other major factor is belief. You really do not believe you can change your life. You are trapped in a situation and the information provided does not seem real enough to have you buy into the process of change.

Maybe you have tried things in the past and they did not work out. Or maybe your friend or family member tried something and it didn’t work for them.

Well, let me go back to the first line in the note … YOU CREATE YOUR LIFE EXPERIENCE. Yes you do. You can choose to make it work for you or against you. You can choose to believe (or suspend disbelief) or you can say that just won’t work. Your choice.

The way I see things is like this … everything takes you closer to want you want … or further away … you decide which way to go.

So when information is available to change you life … and it looks like a logical direction to go … it is taking you closer to your desire … then take action.

But take action for at least 30 days – consistently. You need to do your work – which is do daily actions and be positive about it. Do not doubt it will work for you.

Doubt creates. Doubt creates exactly what you think. If you doubt it will work … presto – it will not work. If you have positive expectation – presto – it will work.

Suspend disbelief. Drop all thoughts of doubt. YOU are powerful. Every thought you think is creating your life. Think doubt – that is what you get. Think it will work – that is what you get.

You must control your thinking!!!!! You must BELIEVE. You must change your habitual way of thinking and change your subconscious mind programming.

Now … go out and change your life. I recommend The Secret of Deliberate Creation. It is wonderful and thorough … and guaranteed.

Take a read of  The Secret of Deliberate Creation Review …   Take a peek and take action.

What more do you need?   Let me know.

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Firstly, you must know what you want. If you do not know what you want, then list want you do not want and then take the opposite of that. Those would be want you want.

Do this for all areas of your life. Love, relationships, health, wealth, etc.

We are going to create a better life for you in whatever area you want to improve. You decide on what it is.

Write it down.

You must do this daily.

You might look at the list you wrote down the day before. What could be even better than what is on that list? How could you improve you life by taking your desire to a new level?

Try not to limit yourself.

This entire daily ritual should take no more than 5 minutes. For 5 measly minutes you are going to focus on what you want in life – in all areas.

Now, when you write these things down, write them in the present – as if you are actually living this experience.

Writing down you desires is one of the most power methods to manifest your desires. It works – because you focus on what you want.

You have to focus to write things down. This process forces you to focus … and the beauty of this is your subconscious mind will begin to manifest your desires. Your vibration will lift … and the law of attraction will respond to your changed vibration.

The law of attraction is working 24 hours, 7 days a week – responding always to your vibration. All you need to do is lift your vibration in the areas of your life you want to change.

It is simple … and it works …. everytime … all the time.

So … for 5 minutes a day – try this method. Try it for 21 days.

I will add this … take score of how you are feeling. Take note before you write down your desires and take note afterwards. You should feel a difference.

When I do this exercise … I am buzzing. I can feel the difference in my vibration in my body. It feels like excitement. My whole body is vibrating and I can feel it.

That is a great sign you have lifted your vibration (THE KEY).

Enjoy yourself. This should be fun – uplifting and joyful.

Let me know how you do.

Cheers.

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Every day, we each “speak” to ourselves, providing feedback on how we’re doing. Usually it’s NEGATIVE feedback. As a result, we feel worse – and end up in a rut.

By changing our “Self-Talk,” we can actually begin to feel better.

We can REPROGRAM our minds to enjoy greater happiness, wealth, confidence, love, success, health – and more.

ALL just by changing what we say to ourselves.

The way to improving your life – every aspect of it – is by changing your subconscious mind. Your self talk is programming your subconscious mind all the time.

If you say things like “that will never happen to me”, “I’m so stupid”, or (my favourite) “with my luck” … you are programming … or reinforcing the programming in your subconscious mind.

When you say anything less than positive words to yourself about yourself you are literally creating what your are saying. The good news is it works for positive words equally as well. So you can change your programming.

Self hypnosis, meditation, subliminals, etc are very affective tools … but if you have negative self-talk you will be canceling out the good you desire with these tools.

Author Bradley Thompson has just created a website, showing you the precise steps you need to follow to change your own Self-Talk.

It’s an amazing system, and I highly encourage you to visit:

The Ultimate Self-Talk Series

I guarantee you’ll be blown away by this website. I was!

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When I think about attitude I like to reflect on this great quote by Charles Swindoll:

“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.

Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company… a church… a home.

The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past… we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude… I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.

And so it is with you… we are in charge of our attitudes.”

Now I want you to reflect for a moment. Look at your life … who do you know that has a not so great attitude? Who do you know that is constantly complaining, is negative, etc.

Now, who do you know that is positive? Who do you know that looks at the brighter side of life? Who do you know that you want to be around?

You will find that you like to around positive people more.

I have been in a leadership position for over 15 years and I can tell you that I will take someone will less skills and the right attitude over someone with better skills and a bad attitude – everytime!

The reason is attitude! I can train people on the skills. But retraining someone on attitude is much more difficult. It is not that they cannot improve their attitude. You absolutely can. But they need to do it themselves. I cannot change anyone.

At every moment we have a choice. We can choose the attitude we want – no matter what.

I want to close this post on another quote:

“Everyone has the ability to light up a room. Some people light up the room when they enter … some people light up the room when they exit”

What this is saying is you are either an uplifter or a downer. Who do you want to be? At every moment of your life … who do you want to be?

For me … I choose to uplift the world.

Click Here for a great resource to further your learning and to change the world.

Attitude is everything … and the law of attraction is responding to your attitude (your vibration).

Enjoy.

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